How to Get Money for Moving Expenses

It’s late spring. This means lots of med students and physicians are preparing to start new jobs or hoping to advance forward in their current one. This is an exciting time, but it can be stressful as well, especially when it comes to finances. Gathering money for moving expenses, housing costs, as well as basic living expenses can be quite daunting. As someone who is moving across the country to start a fellowship myself, I completely understand the sentiment. When people ask me about ways to get money for all these expenses here are the 4 things I tell them:

1.     Moonlighting. As a physician one of the things we know how to do is work. Moonlighting is when we as doctors work extra shifts for added pay. Some people work in the hospital, others work in the urgent care, some even take call from home. Each employer has their own set of rules or stipulations regarding moonlighting but if your program allows it, working a little extra to cover the cost of moving expenses can be a great way to earn extra cash. 

2.     Uber/Lyft/Doordash/Amazon. Some folks, especially med students may not have the credentials to moonlight or work extra shifts. If that’s the case for you, there are other options to consider. You can try driving for Uber or Lyft or even sign up for food and package delivery services like Amazon and Doordash. While these jobs may not be the highest paying, the flexible hours may be a great fit for your busy schedule. 

3.     Monetize your talents. I’m a huge fan of having multiple income streams and encourage all young professionals to do so as well. Perhaps there’s a skill you have that other people would pay you to learn? For example, some of my friends are good at tennis and charge others for tennis lessons. I also have friends who are great at cooking and charge their friends for meal preps or who are great at photography and charge others for headshots. Can you think of a skill you have that you can monetize? If so, let your med school classmates or co-residents know and get started!

4.     Get a side hustle. Side hustles can be great. They are jobs that we do for others or passion projects that we make money from. For example, some people have started a blog or podcast and charged companies for ads. Other people do some consulting on the side. Some folks make money from social media or act as ambassadors for other companies. Think of ways to leverage what you know or who you know in order to bring in some extra cash.

5.     Personal Loans. When all else fails and you need some money quickly, you can always consider a loan. I’m not a huge fan of taking out debt you don’t need, but even I had to borrow money at some point, especially when I was waiting on my first residency paycheck. Moving can be expensive and trying to get money for housing and living expenses can require cash that you may not have on hand. As long as you don’t take out more than you need, getting a personal loan at a low interest rate can be quite beneficial. While there are several companies that may offer relocation loans, Doc2Doc is a company for physicians by physicians that offers loans at low interest rates to graduating med students and physicians. If you have a pressing need for cash, these types of personal loans can be a great option as well.

Yes I’m a Doctor, yes I still live on a budget: 4 steps I took to change my spending habits

To the outside world, I’m a rich doctor who can buy what I want. In reality, I’m a sleep-deprived resident physician struggling to keep my head above water. No one told me life would be like this, at least not before I started taking out tens of thousands of dollars in student loans each semester, but I digress. The point is that even [future] high-income earners like myself need to have a budget. Without one, our money disappears faster than a post-call resident leaving the hospital. 

Unfortunately, realizing I needed a budget and actually creating one were two different things. Like a diabetic struggling to shed those unwanted pounds, it takes time to actually move from one step to another. Coming to terms with the fact that I work super hard and still can’t afford all the things I crave is its own beast that has taken me several attempts to tackle. Just in case some of you are in the same boat, let me shed some light on my own come-to-Jesus moment.

Step 1: I had to let go of my pride and accept that I was spending too much money. 

I’m almost ashamed to admit, but a few years ago I didn’t think a budget was necessary. I thought they were for poor people living paycheck to paycheck. Now that I’m a doctor living paycheck to paycheck I have a lot more sympathy (and humility too). It wasn’t until 6 months ago that I finally let go of my pride and began to accept that my habits needed to change. I was tired of running out of money at the end of each month. I was tired of relying on my credit cards for basic living expenses or holding my breath every time I had to pay for an oil change. 

Step 2: I had to sit down and actually write down my budget.

Honestly, I think the only reason I finally sat down and tried to make a budget was because I had this incredible distaste for debt. I had heard horror stories of older doctors whose student loan burden was sapping all of the happiness they once had with their jobs. It’s as if their lack of financial independence had turned the job they once loved into one they despised. I didn’t want that to happen to me. I wanted to know that my bills were paid on time each month and that my credit card debt was getting smaller and smaller. I wanted to make sure all my bases were covered. Creating a budget was one of the first steps I took to get on the right track. 

Step 3: I had to download a budget app to track my spending, and actually check it. 

Sounds simple, but for me, this was not an easy feat. The anxiety I had even thinking about opening Mint.com is one I cannot even begin to describe. But...I got through it. Slowly but surely I began to look at the numbers. I saw how much money I was actually spending on food each week. How my impromptu trips to the mall resulted in unnecessary clothes and holes in my budget. How the Uber rides, overpriced drinks, and club fees from weekend shenanigans added up to much more than I anticipated. I finally opened the app, stared at the numbers on the screen, and faced the fact that my spending was out of control. 

I was barely staying afloat and knew I had to do better. I couldn’t use the fact that I was a med student living on loans as an excuse. The spending habits I had wouldn’t magically change once I started getting paid as a resident physician or even as an attending physician. I needed to get rid of the bad behavior now, so that when I do experience an increase in pay in the future, I don’t just squander my wealth. 

Step 4: I had to put boundaries in place and stick to them. 

It wasn’t enough for me to track my spending each month. I needed to put some protections in place to “save me from myself.” I opened mint.com and set up budget notifications that send an alert to my phone whenever I’m nearing my weekly allotment for food or entertainment. For example, if I limit myself to $100 every two weeks for transportation, the app will send me an alert whenever my Uber rides approach the $80 mark. That way I know when I need to forgo that weekend party invitation and maybe host a game night at my place instead. I was well-intentioned before, but setting boundaries through budget apps and spending notifications has really challenged me to stick to my goals.

Full disclosure, I am still a work in progress. There are times I ignore those alerts only to face regret when I log into my bank account afterwards. Thankfully, those times happen a lot less frequently than they used to. When it comes to my spending habits, I am far from perfect. I still struggle, but by simply making these 4steps my spending habits have improved exponentially. 

Tell me, what steps have you taken to improve your spending habits? What was it like when you first tried to make a budget?